I'm not "one of those people." At least, I never was. You know, the ones who love cooking. I used to say, "I'd better marry a man who cooks or we're both going to starve because I hate doing it." The word "foodie" was a foreign concept that I thought I would simply never relate to. I was raised being told to eat vegetables, go easy on the junk food and fast food, and opt for fruit before candy when I wanted a sweet snack. But beyond that I considered cooking as simply an added step and waste of time between the moment I decided I was hungry to the moment I could start shoveling it in. "Besides," I thought, "how will I know what I'm going to be hungry for until I'm hungry for it?" Thus I would resort to chicken wraps, salad, cereal or whatever else was the pick of that week. And from talking to people, I don't think I was alone in this ideology. Then a crazy thing happened. I decided to try something new. At first it was just an occasional experiment. And then the constant pain I was in fueled me to finding a new way of looking at things. I decided to take matters into my own hands. I'm still very much a novice and have loads to learn. But if I can do it, anyone can.
My husband and I both work fulltime. My job can be emotionally and/or physically taxing (but I love it) and I understand wanting to come home and just be done thinking. That's the beauty of planning ahead. I plan all my meals for the month so I don't have to worry about thinking of something when I'm already tired. Some people (who shall remain nameless) have said that they just can't mealplan, so I'm going to share my secret now.
I essentially just open my google calendar (so that I can access it on my phone and even get reminders of what's for dinner tomorrow) and fill in a template. During the week it can be hard to cook because of late work, wanting to have family time once I get home, or going to the gym. I make sure that I cook big meals on Saturday and Sunday so that each will last for at least one night of leftovers. I then make sure that my husband (and I) knows that it will be a two day dinner and we need to only eat half and then fill up more on salad, fruit or other sides if we're still hungry. Then I only have to cook one (worst case scenario: two) nights during the week. I also know that by Friday I'm tired, my husband is tired and we're almost definitely out of leftovers. So, in my house, Friday is breakfast for dinner. Whoever gets home first can start whipping up some scrambled eggs with toast, pancakes, smoothies, oatmeal or whatever other hot breakfast we can think of. Basically here's my template:
Sunday: Big dinner
Monday: Leftovers
Tuesday: Something quick and easy
Wednesday: Leftovers
Thursday: "Experiment" (which means leftovers or use up whatever ingredients are left in the fridge)
Friday: Breakfast
Saturday: Big dinner
I plug everything in and only have to pick 3ish things to make each week. Ta-Da! That's how it works for me. Your schedule is probably different so arrange it however works for you. This is just an example, and it makes evenings so much easier. Of course things are subject to change for various reasons, but at least I'm never surprised or feel like it's down to the wire and we're either going to starve or eat out.
The other question/concern that I want to address is "How do I know what I'm going to feel like eating on that day?" This is a valid concern and one I used to have. I can't speak for anyone else, but now that I plan ahead, I crave whatever I planned on making that day. I only cook foods that I like (for starters) and I switch it up so that I can look forward to it. I decide what I'm going to crave. I'm the master of food. Not the other way around. (Caution: I have no scientific basis for what I'm about to say, it only makes sense in my head.) Also, because I'm not as many eating highly processed, addicting foods, I don't have as many cravings. I enjoy food and feel pleasantly satisfied. End of caution.
My last plug for meal plans is the ease of grocery shopping. I just look at my menu and buy exactly what I need for the week (taking into account lunches and breakfast stuff). It makes the list-making process easier, I don't waste as much, and I don't overspend.
In a nutshell, I'm a strong endorser of meal planning. It seems daunting at first, but it is worth it on so many levels.
My husband and I both work fulltime. My job can be emotionally and/or physically taxing (but I love it) and I understand wanting to come home and just be done thinking. That's the beauty of planning ahead. I plan all my meals for the month so I don't have to worry about thinking of something when I'm already tired. Some people (who shall remain nameless) have said that they just can't mealplan, so I'm going to share my secret now.
I essentially just open my google calendar (so that I can access it on my phone and even get reminders of what's for dinner tomorrow) and fill in a template. During the week it can be hard to cook because of late work, wanting to have family time once I get home, or going to the gym. I make sure that I cook big meals on Saturday and Sunday so that each will last for at least one night of leftovers. I then make sure that my husband (and I) knows that it will be a two day dinner and we need to only eat half and then fill up more on salad, fruit or other sides if we're still hungry. Then I only have to cook one (worst case scenario: two) nights during the week. I also know that by Friday I'm tired, my husband is tired and we're almost definitely out of leftovers. So, in my house, Friday is breakfast for dinner. Whoever gets home first can start whipping up some scrambled eggs with toast, pancakes, smoothies, oatmeal or whatever other hot breakfast we can think of. Basically here's my template:
Sunday: Big dinner
Monday: Leftovers
Tuesday: Something quick and easy
Wednesday: Leftovers
Thursday: "Experiment" (which means leftovers or use up whatever ingredients are left in the fridge)
Friday: Breakfast
Saturday: Big dinner
I plug everything in and only have to pick 3ish things to make each week. Ta-Da! That's how it works for me. Your schedule is probably different so arrange it however works for you. This is just an example, and it makes evenings so much easier. Of course things are subject to change for various reasons, but at least I'm never surprised or feel like it's down to the wire and we're either going to starve or eat out.
The other question/concern that I want to address is "How do I know what I'm going to feel like eating on that day?" This is a valid concern and one I used to have. I can't speak for anyone else, but now that I plan ahead, I crave whatever I planned on making that day. I only cook foods that I like (for starters) and I switch it up so that I can look forward to it. I decide what I'm going to crave. I'm the master of food. Not the other way around. (Caution: I have no scientific basis for what I'm about to say, it only makes sense in my head.) Also, because I'm not as many eating highly processed, addicting foods, I don't have as many cravings. I enjoy food and feel pleasantly satisfied. End of caution.
My last plug for meal plans is the ease of grocery shopping. I just look at my menu and buy exactly what I need for the week (taking into account lunches and breakfast stuff). It makes the list-making process easier, I don't waste as much, and I don't overspend.
In a nutshell, I'm a strong endorser of meal planning. It seems daunting at first, but it is worth it on so many levels.


